When I take a look at my past relationships, I can notice that some of my exes tried to make me skip a career opportunity for our relationship. Because they said that they loved me and didn’t want to break up.
This is what they said. I always said « no » to them because I’m a « career girl ». However, when I listen to other women and observe them, I notice that some of them are willing to skip a career opportunity – or a business opportunity – because they put their relationship first.
Do you think that this is a healthy relationship ? Is this a decision that depends on each person’s goals ? Let me tell you what I think about healthy relationships in this blog post.
What is a healthy relationship ?
There are so many elements to take into consideration about what a healthy relationship means… I could talk about healthy boundaries, toxic partners, and personal agendas.
Today, I chose to give you my own opinion about healthy relationships. I also call them “dream relationships”. My opinion is based on what I saw up to now with my observing eyes and what I heard with my listening ears.
A healthy relationship is a relationship that you enter from a place of self-love. Self-esteem. Self confidence.
Shall I be more clear ?
A toxic relationship (as opposed to a healthy relationship) is a relationship where you enter with fear. With toxic beliefs. From the place of the victim.
Since I started observing unhappy wives, I noticed that they often start a relationship for fear of staying single. Some of them have even confirmed it to me.
There are women who get married for fear of staying unmarried. Or for fear of not giving themselves the chance to have children. Or both. At some point, they understand that they’ve made the wrong choice… but it’s too late.
Are you willing to wait as much as you need to find your ideal partner ? Are you courageous enough to take the risk of never finding them and stay single for the rest of your life ?
If the answer is YES, then you are ready to attract the dream relationship.
What happens when you put your relationship first ?
Imagine that you skip a career opportunity or a business opportunity to make sure that you can stay in your current relationship…. What would you do in the long term ?
As far as I know myself, I think that I will have huge regrets in the future. I wouldn’t blame my partner, even if I would feel tempted to do so.
I would cry in silence, lock my words inside, find a place to hide and scream. Which would make me feel frustrated and unhappy. A failure in my life.
I would also feel angry towards myself. How could I take such a stupid decision ?
As you can see, this relationship has all the chances to become toxic. You may even break up one day.
Is this what you want ?
What happens when you put your career or your business first ?
Now imagine that you seize a career opportunity. You accept a job that requires moving to another city or country.
What can happen in your relationship ?
- Option 1: There is a risk of breaking up with your partner, who doesn’t want to make huge changes in his life for you. Do you really think that this is your dream relationship ?
- Option 2: Initially you break up, then you realize that you truly love each other. This is your dream relationship and now you are searching together for a solution to get back together. Isn’t it amazing ?
- Option 3: You never break up. Your partner has the possibility to move in with you. Or the city where you are moving is not so far and you can see each other every weekend… later you will find a better solution. I love this option too!
As far as I’m concerned, I love option 2 and option 3. What about you ?
I give you 8 tips to attract your ideal partner in my next masterclass
Did you like the topic I chose for this blog post ? Let me tell you that it’s included in my next masterclass: Dreams reveal your ideal relationship.
I will start the masterclass explaining how analyzing one of my nightmares helped me see a limiting belief that ruined my relationships. It’s a belief that I needed to release in order to make space for a healthy relationship.
During the masterclass, I will also give you my 8 tips to attract your ideal partner. The topic that I wrote about today is one of them.
Do you want to know the other tips ? You can book your spot and ask me your questions live: on Saturday February 18th at:
- 7 PM U.K. time – 8 PM Central Europe – 9 PM Eastern Europe
- United States: 2 PM EST – 11 AM PST
- the live masterclass takes place on a private Facebook Group
- you can watch the replay inside the group OR ask me the link: contact(@)meaningful-dreams.com
- price goes from 11 to 22 on March 1st
You can book the masterclass here (live + replay) – as I love early birds, the price will go up on March 1st:
For courageous dreamers and dreamtellers who like gifts, you can join the masterclass + 1 Dream Analysis (1:1 session)
- you get access to the live masterclass and replay inside the Facebook group – you can ask questions – you have access at the masterclass as early birds
- you get a 1-hour session with me – special offer – we can use the session to work on another life area
Do you prefer to join the masterclass + 3 Dream Analysis ?
- you get access to the live masterclass and replay inside the Facebook group; you can ask questions
- you can schedule 3 sessions with me (1 hour each) – I suggest to schedule 1 session/month – special offer – you choose the dreams/limiting beliefs that you want to work on
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